Vera Wylde is one of my most favourite crossdressers to watch on Youtube. Even though I am a genetic woman myself, I always had that question of “How do they do it?” when looking at a beautiful drag queen on stage.
One time in Toronto I saw a feminine apparition like that at the Pride Parade and I was amazed by her grace to the point that I asked her if I could kiss her hand. She let me! Really don’t know if she expected a gesture of this sort from a woman, especially a straight woman, who knows.
Vera in her Youtube show reveals many secrets of how dressers can pull it off so well. Here are some that I find especially entertaining.
The general rule of thumb is that if it has breasts, it’s a woman! It’s like a badge of femininity. Actually not only dressers have the challenge of creating breasts. There are women who are flat chested, but don’t look like that because of all the padding and silicone breast forms that they insert in their bra.
Vera mentions breast forms as a more feasible option to fill the bra, create a cleavage without looking like a caricature. But she warns you that it may be expensive! You can see some examples at this breast form store that sells them so realistic that they even have a nipple. Vera recommends to acquire a pair because otherwise the clothes just doesn’t fit properly – she already owns two sets herself.
You can watch the video below where she talks about some tips and points out technical details that she discovered for herself, like why an insert that was supposed to be cup D ended up fitting like cup C. For most of us it’s probably a surprise that such inserts even exist.
Vera also touched on the topic of hosiery: knee highs, stockings, stay ups, pantyhose. For most of you this is pretty basic information, however I must admit I’ve never seen anyone roll on stockings before. I bunch mine up in my hands and slowly release it as I pull it on.
Her preference is stockings over pantyhose because she doesn’t like the constricting feeling on the top. She would rather wear a garter belt to hold up her stocking. In one of her stage performances she even dances around in a corset and stockings held up by a 6 strap garter belt.
Walking on high heels is a challenge that not only cross dressers experience. When I lived in Toronto, I remember laughing every time I’d go to a club. Young women there would get a tipsy and begin to wobble off the dance floor, grabbing on walls and bystanders, trying not to fall off those stiletto heels or lose a shoe all together.
Vera mentions that it is better to buy a shoe that has a thicker heel and a strap on the top. That type of shoe looks like a tango shoe and that strap makes it so much more comfortable to wear. This is a perfect shoe for women like described above who don’t want to end up walking around barefoot by the end of the party. A sky high heel shoe just will look comical on a person who can’t walk on it.
Vera Wylde recently started a form of Q & A called “Dear Vera”. So if you have a question for her, feel free to ask her. She is a very unique individual with a lot of insight on the subject and she also runs a blog. Maybe some day I’ll get lucky and have a chance to watch her perform on stage or even meet in person.