Guest vs Roommate Dilemma

February 7, 2015 under Boys

roommate boyfriend conflictHave you ever been in a situation where someone in your household would bring their boyfriend / girlfriend over so much that it was as if you acquired an additional tenant?

Today I was watching Judge Alex show where one sister was suing the other for rent. These sisters lived together and had an agreement not to bring their boyfriends over too frequently, but one of them fell in love and had her guy there all the time. So hence with the second sister felt as if she ended up with an extra roommate and no privacy, so she moved out before the lease was up.

This reminded me of a few situations that I’ve been in when I was a university student. Looking back at those times, I have no idea how I lived like that. For about a year I rented a room in a house with 5 other young female students. It was 6 of us in a house, with only 2 restrooms and 1 kitchen to share. If some of you know Toronto neighborhoods, this was an old house in the heart of Kensington market.

Our landlord was a nice Chinese lady from Hong Kong. Despite her polite appearance, when I just came to view the room she told me very bluntly “I don’t want this place to turn into a whore house!” and said that boyfriends were not allowed in our bedrooms. It was OK to bring a boyfriend to the common area to socialize, but not to have them overnight.

Let’s just say that the girl who was in the room next to me had a different interpretation. Her boyfriend started coming over almost daily, sleeping overnight, cooking in our kitchen, and using our shower.

At one point I heard a noise from her room and thought she came home, but turned out he was lounging there alone. She flew for the weekend to Vancouver, but he figured to stay in her room anyway without her.

Another time late at night I carelessly walked out from a shower with a towel on my head and another towel wrapped around my body, colliding head to head with him. Let’s just say I didn’t expect a guy to be walking around what was supposed to be an all women residence.

Well, I was stuck in a rent agreement and it’s not like I had another place where I could move during the school year, so I just had to put up with the situation. I felt quite uncomfortable with this.

I want to ask all the males reading this, would you say that this is an issue that women are the only ones who can feel strange when there is a person of opposite gender appearing excessively in their residence without their consent? I wonder if gender has anything to do with this conflict, or if it is equally undesirable both ways.

Sofia Vergara crunching numbers

January 8, 2014 under Famous

by David, United States

sofia vergara on the beach… This recent photograph of Sofia Vergara with her boyfriend and fiancé Nick Loeb seems to contradict rumors that the relationship is in trouble; they seem to be quite happy.  The "buzz" is that Nick wants Sofia to invest in his highly successful consumer foods business "Crunchy Condiments" but that she is resisting… this is only rumor. "Crunchy Onions" topping has been successfully launched into stores across the USA, with "Crunchy Ketchup" and "Crunchy Pickles" to follow next year. So, let’s "Crunch" the numbers on Sofia:

At the age of forty one, her rise to the top has been a whirlwind of successes, with many more surely to come. Born into a wonderful and wealthy cattle rancher’s family in Columbia, Sofia began studying pre-dentistry in college.

A few years later her path took a sharp turn when she was discovered on a beach by a fashion photographer, and she began getting lucrative modeling jobs. Her first national fame across Latin America came when she did a widely broadcast Pepsi commercial. Numerous modeling and television acting roles followed, and she made her launch onto the USA scene when she signed a contract with ABC that led to a starring role on the sitcom "Modern Family" as Gloria Delgado-Pritchett.

On July 18, 2012, it was announced by Fortune Magazine that for the preceding twelve months, Gloria was the highest earning woman in US television, ringing up total sales of $19 million. Crunch that! Cha-ching!

Sofia Vergara in black pantyhose

… That kind of money could certainly help cover the marketing rollout of Nick’s new "Crunchy Pickles" topping! But, enough said. Fantasy Stockings doesn’t want to "get into a pickle" with Sofia over that one!

Here are some photographs of the beautiful and talented Sofia Vergara wearing – you guessed it – pantyhose – for all of our Fantasy Stockings friends and fans. Enjoy them, while I go out to my local grocery store to find some of those "Crunchy Onions" – they should go great on top of the hamburgers I’ve been planning for dinner! Happy Holidays to each of you, and the best of the New Year.

 

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Pantyhose Obsession and Fetish

June 4, 2011 under Love

black opaque pantyhose

f-e-t-i-s-h …  dangerous topic.  Yes, pantyhose obsession is not uncommon.  #1 obsession in the world is shoes.  #2 is pantyhose and stockings.

I had a lot of men telling me that they have a love for hosiery.  Why wouldn’t a man be attracted to such a feminine garment?  I think this is the most classiest kink out there.

Some have difficulty explaining to their partner about why they like it so much.  You can’t explain it, it’s just the way you are!  How can we possibly give rational explanations to our sexual preferences?  Some men tell me that they were attracted to pantyhose since the age of 4 or 5.

If a woman truly loves her man, of course she’d be dying to dress up in clothes that make him want her so badly!  If you think about it, who else would be more important to impress with your outfit than your own lover?  Wouldn’t you want to be attractive for her too?

But what if she is not attentive to your needs and tells you that she doesn’t want to wear this kind of clothing for you, no matter how nicely you ask her?  Well, if she is your girlfriend, as hard as it is to say, I suggest you move on and find another girl that would love to please you.  If this is your wife, it’s time to have a serious conversation – could that be that she feels that her needs are not met, therefore she became cold to your desires?

The reason why I believe that couples should be absolutely compatible when it comes to sexuality is because once you marry, you can’t ask any other person for sexual satisfaction except for your own spouse.  This is what makes this union special – romance, love, sexuality.  Great conversations can exist between friends and co-workers, but sexual  intimacy is something else.

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